Friday, January 23, 2015

What da ya think?


I’m a skier -- both downhill and cross country. It is one of the things I do in winter to keep active and enjoy the outdoors. I ski downhill at local Michigan ski resorts, maybe four times a winter, and mostly out my back door for cross-country skiing.

My favorite downhill venue is Treetops Ski Resort as it is the closest to my home and they have a policy of allowing 70 year-olds to ski free. So far, I haven’t broken any bones, the exercise seems valuable, and since I own the skis and boots, the price is right.

On Monday, Martin Luther King Day, I went downhill skiing with my brother and two nieces. They were excited about skiing when we arrived at Treetops, but I wondered about the lack of vehicles in the parking lot. I asked the ski lift-lady about the few skiers on the hills and she said she was surprised, that she expected more folks since it was a holiday and since the resort rooms were nearly sold out. It was good news for the resort since they have had falling revenues from our still-shaky economy in northern Michigan. We had a good time skiing and I thought no more about it until the following day when I saw the television report.

The newscaster on TV said that Treetops had suffered serious losses due to vandalism. As the story unfolded, it seems that a fraternity from the University of Michigan had rented 50 rooms from Treetops for a skiing holiday. Apparently, Saturday night the collegians had a few beers too many and the celebrants went on a rampage of destruction. Treetops was the loser. The rooms that had been rented were seriously vandalized and the college students were ejected from the resort. The report noted that furniture was overturned, holes were punched in walls, cabinet doors were torn from their hinges and body fluids were used to redecorate many surfaces -- A $50,000 loss according to Treetops estimates.

I asked myself how could this happen? The only answer I could fathom is that the destruction was caused by drunken children who happened to inhabit adult bodies capable to commit the vandalism that was found. What’da ya think?

As I thought about my youth and time in college, it was impossible to imagine that I, or any of my peers, would be guilty of a similar outrage. We just wouldn’t have committed such senseless acts, not even in times of over-the-top celebrations or in the depth of despair over, say, a lost love. It just wouldn’t have happened because we were too preoccupied with our futures, our financial responsibilities and respect for law and order.     What da ya think?

It seemed to me that the Treetops thing was not a one-of-a-kind happening. Other news reports have indicated extraordinary happenings, criminal, senseless, or juvenile, that occur by younger folks. The examples can be mind numbing. The frequency of such reports indict our current generation of folks under 30.             What’da ya think?

I don’t know of any sociology studies, but it seems to me that youngsters today are less mature than we were at comparable ages. They are marrying later, having children later, making life commitments later, and failing to accept adult responsibilities until later in life. My generation began to think about work, families, and taking care of ourselves after high school, not after college or even later. I read recently that Italian men, perhaps I should say boys, are commonly living at home and accepting care from their parents until their 30’s. In contrast, the generations before mine seemed to mature even earlier than we did. For example, the Great Depression saw boys leaving home in their early teens to avoid being a burden on their parents. It must have been hard leaving home during the worst of times, but they accepted it as an adult responsibility.            What’da ya think?

I haven’t written this to denigrate the current generation of youth. They are probably more knowledgeable than we were, probably healthier, and they have better prospects for living longer, fulfilling lives than us if our planet hasn’t been trashed into oblivion by human disregard.             What’da ya think?   I’d like to hear from you.
Bill